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January 8, 2008

The Perfect Diet

What makes a good "diet?" For that mater, what is a diet? In our society, diet generally has a negative connotation. It signals deprivation. You have to cut out all the things you love and eat boring stuff in order to lose weight. Personally, I think that's why diets suck and programs like Weight Watchers work for a lot of people. For me, as soon as you tell me what I can't have, that's all that I want. I'm difficult like that! The thing I struggle with is not just what I should eat, but I shouldn't eat and figuring that out isn't the easiest thing in the world.

I just finished reading Skinny Bitch and I can honestly say that I found it interesting. The authors strongly and passionately advocate for a vegan lifestyle. They make some valid points, and some not so valid. I have to preface this entire discussion by reminding you that I grew up on a cattle ranch and I live in a state where the major industry is agriculture. I believe in agriculture and wouldn't have traded my upbringing for anything. Considering that, I have a hard time buying the idea that every single thing in the cattle (dairy, chicken, pork, fishing...) industry is horrible, cruel, disease infested, chemically tainted, and disgusting. Do I think there are a lot of changes that need to be made? Absolutely. Do I think I am blessed to be able to eat locally raised, slaughtered, and processed beef? You bet. I also think eating steak every single day probably isn't a good idea for a lot of reasons. I generally cook meat for dinner for a couple of reasons. First, Travis is a card-carrying carnivore. If it doesn't have some kind of meat in it, he doesn't want to eat it. No excepts - well dessert is an exception. Second, I grew up eating meat and I know how to cook it. Third, it's quick and easy. The reality is that even if I wanted to, I couldn't cut meat out of my diet. And honestly, I don't want to.

Personally, I don't think deprivation works, but rather that moderation is the key. YiaAnn helped talk some sense into me and remind me that all you have to do is be smart about what you eat. I need to eat more whole grains, fruits, and veggies. I need to eat less desserts, refined sugar, and simple carbs. I probably shouldn't eat as much cheese as I do, but sometimes I'm just lazy and eat cheese and crackers for lunch, and I wouldn't do that if I had salad fixings or soup to choose from. I love to bake, as I'm sure you all have noticed, and I don't have to give that up as long as I don't eat everything I bake. Travis works with more than a hundred guys every day. I'm sure they'd be happy to take a large portion of my baked goods. That way I get the benefit of baking and having a treat now and then without having temptation staring at me 24/7.

Life is for living and we all need to find the balance between health and happiness that works for us. There is no one size fits all. I'd love to hear about how you found that balance in your life. You'll inspire me.

I'm busy working on the second Bartholomew sock.

2nd Sock

The only problem is I only have this much yarn left

Yarn Left

That isn't anywhere close to enough and I'm so annoyed. I'm so close to actually finishing a project and I'm running out of yarn. If anyone has any left over STR Rocktober they'd be willing to sell me (I don't need an entire skein!), I would be eternally grateful. I don't really understand why I'm running out of yarn. These socks are for me and they aren't any taller than a normal sock, so I'm perplexed. Anyway, thanks for taking the time to look in your stash for me.

Posted by Stephanie on January 8, 2008 8:42 PM

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Interesting thoughts on eating and lifestyle. Clearly I haven't found the perfect balance yet. But I am working on it and I think I always will be. It's not dieting, it's making smart choices. Moving more, eating less, that's my new mantra!
I wish I could help you with the sock yarn but I don't have any of thought. Did you check Ravelry?

Posted by: Carole at January 9, 2008 3:19 AM

hmm, for some reason you disappeared from my bloglines. boo on me! anyway, i just wanted to say happy new year and also share the fact that i just finished my bartholomews (love that pattern) with plenty of yarn to spare. sorry! ;-) it wasn't str, unfortunately ...

Posted by: kris at January 9, 2008 6:09 AM

i won't comment on the diet portion of your post since you know where i stand with that :) but as for the STR, check on ravelry and see if anyone else has knit with it, then message them!

Posted by: gleek at January 9, 2008 6:23 AM

oh no, yarn shortage! i think the toes could be a different color if necessary.. take a little yarn from the first sock and knit to equal lengths, then switch to a solid.

Posted by: Diana at January 9, 2008 7:05 AM

Oh, where to start?! First of all, if humans were meant to be vegans, we would have different teeth. MHO, as I duck to avoid the cyber tomatoes! No, I'll leave it at that. You are on the right track with the moderation thing: more whole grains, less white stuff (sugar, white flour, processed foods), more fruits and veggies. I'll email you with some baking ideas, but do you work with weights? That might help. Walk or run more, ride those horses!

Posted by: Marcia Cooke at January 9, 2008 7:34 AM

The sock looks wonderful. Good luck with it! *fingers crossed*

I agree with your assessment of the book (not having read it). I read a NY times article about their second book and what their veganism is all about. I was a vegetarian for 3 years and it was the healthiest in my life because I was able to make better choices and food combinations; but give up things like dairy and even honey as a natural sweetener sounds insane. What would be next? No grains and veggies because the insects are working too hard to pollinate the crops.

It also doesn't sound too easy to eliminate out of my diet; especially after years of eating meat, dairy, and eggs. But if it works for some, then I applaude their dedication.

I am working on eating the same as you--"wholesome."

Posted by: Rosa at January 9, 2008 9:35 AM

Hurray for the declaration! I'll be making sure you stick to it! ;)

Posted by: yaiAnn at January 9, 2008 11:09 AM

Someone smart said it is easier to change your religion than it is to change your diet. There is so much identity tied up in what we eat that changing it is enormously difficult, and involves re-defining the self, even if just for a short time (no tuna because I'm pregnant, no dessert because I'm dieting). Good luck with making a change, sounds like you're trying to find one that will work for you. What works for me is no caffeine, no refined carbs, no sugar, no corn syrup. I guarantee you'll lose weight and be healthier, but our society doesn't support that eating pattern. And once you get off the sugar, you really don't miss it. At least I don't.

Posted by: Lee at January 9, 2008 11:32 AM

You have been leaving the nicest comments on my blog, so I thought I would return the favor! First, I love you too! :) And second, we're definitely on the same page. Now we can just support each other through life minus 'as many' cinnamon rolls. :)

Oh, and you really stink at knitting. NOT. You've been knitting pretty stuff!!!! So talented. I think you should open an esty.com account.

Coffee tomorrow? Email me.

Posted by: Lulu at January 9, 2008 1:01 PM

Delurking to say that I have about half a ball of STR Rocktober lightweight. If it's what you're looking for then I'd be more than happy to send it to you! It may or may not work...up to you! :)

You can see my sock on Ravelry under JenKen (I need to post more of my projects!) or here:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/unmerited/396868344/

Posted by: Jen at January 9, 2008 5:49 PM

Those heels are awesome. I knit socks out of nessessity. I am not really a sock knitter even though I knit about 5 pairs a year. Cat may keep me entertained enough to enjoy knitting socks. She is one of my knitting heros. I love people who use their mind. You know, really use it.

Posted by: JenBrenneman at January 10, 2008 9:31 AM

OK, I realise there are strong feelings about the vegan/carnivore issue. To me, being completely vegan is about as extreme as eating all your meals in fastfood restaurants.
But there is no doubt that most of us (and the planet as well) would benefit from cutting back on the meat. You have to find the balance that works for you in terms of health and other cost/benefit issues, like local food vs that exotic fruit from the other side of the globe.


It takes a little time to get over the fast carb and sweetness addiction, but after a few weeks or months you won't miss it, and find yourself craving healty stuff. Nice smoothies, salads, soups, whole-grain pasta... lots of fresh veggies and fruit. And an occasional cinnamon roll. or two.


I've always loved the Rocktober colourway each time I've been drooling on STR online, but have never seen it knitted up before. It looks amazing with that stitchpattern, thanks for showing us. And I was so glad to find out that you are back blogging again!

Posted by: Rippedoffknitter at January 10, 2008 9:41 AM

I hope you find the extra sock yarn that you need. I would give it to you if I had some. Keep sharing your thoughts/research on eating better. I am in the same boat and I am sure a lot of other knitters (people in general) are too!

Posted by: Knittripps at January 11, 2008 1:15 PM

We've mostly cut out meat, especially red meat, from our diets. Partly for reasons of sanitation, cruelty, etc., in commercial beef outfits, and mostly for health reasons. We still eat plenty of fish (wild-caught) and turkey (free range, fed organic feed), along with eggs and cultured dairy. I've had quite a few challenges with my health over the last 12 years or so, and adjusting my diet has made the biggest difference. It really is a personal choice--when the cost of eating the way you have been accustomed to becomes too costly for you, you change. (In my case, it was realizing that sugar put me straight into a couple of bipolar days. Yep. Way to expensive.)
If you look at human biology (and sheer construction, for that matter), we're not meant to be meat eaters. We have teeth and a digestive system more in common with the herbivores of the animal world. (Well, excepting ruminants, of course. lol) Animals that eat a lot of meat (and daily, by nature's standards, is a lot) have short, relatively straight intestines, providing a fairly quick exit for meat, which putrefies quickly if left there for long. (Unless you chew it until it's absolutely liquid, which very, very few people do. Then it putrefies more slowly.)
With all of that said, do what works for you. What makes you feel healthy and well. And really, that doesn't have to mean cutting out meat. What it does mean is sticking to meat sources grown in good conditions, and eating a lot of whole foods along with it. (Veggies; whole grains like rice, lentils, barley, and beans; etc.) So, we like to eat a lot of soups, veggie stews (with the occasional addition of a little meat), stir-fries, various ethnic dishes, etc. The only other thing I strongly advocate is eliminating as many chemicals from one's life as possible. It's amazing where they appear--in canned & prepared food (especially junk food), household products, and especially personal hygeine products. It boggles the mind.
Sorry . . . this got long. ;o) Hope it helps . . . (And how in the world does one add hard returns to their comment here? Can't seem to get it to work . . .)

Posted by: Annalea at January 14, 2008 4:13 PM

I don't think there is any one perfect diet. Moderation is my motto. I would like to withdraw from the sugar high but don't seem to be able to get to the point where it doesn't bother me and since I don't have a specific bad reaction to it, I am not that motivated.

That being said, I am working towards a more heathly life style, including activity. I eat chocolate, but not as much. I eat meat, but less, and I am increasing my veggies and fruit intake. I have been exploring local sources and better quality food. I quick walk 4 miles/day, at least 4 days/week (that's been going on for 4 months, now and I love it). When at home I try to do something physical before I sit down to knit. Instead of just being home at the same time as my husband, I try to spend some time interacting with him. I am working towards a healthy, well rounded lifestyle. Good luck with your explorations.

Love the sock.

Posted by: Linda at January 15, 2008 11:53 AM

I read that book back in November and laughed my way through it. Most vegans I know are incredibly unhealthy people. They are undernourished and their skin and hair shows it. The few that aren't this way take a lot of vitamin supplements and cheat by eating dairy or eggs or fish.

A lot of what they say in the book is just a lie. Plain and simple they made stuff up. Instead of offering good advice on how to eat better they decided to make people eat their way by lying. It really made me mad to read this book put forward as good advice, so I decided to just laugh at it instead of staying mad.

Posted by: Amy in StL at January 16, 2008 3:30 PM

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