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January 3, 2008
Jumping In
The thing with me is that I tend to jump into things with both feet without a lot of thought. Generally, it works out pretty good - luck mostly, I'm sure. And I tend to be pretty obsessive about the things I do. Knitting, spinning, sewing, reading, General Hospital, karate... the list goes on and on. The one thing I'm obsessive about, but not in a good way, is food. I love food. I love to eat and I would totally suck at dieting. I think it's a willpower issue. So, when I look at the things I've been eating - holidays excluded because you know that really shouldn't count - let's just say it sucks. I eat crap. I eat mostly carbs - sugar is a carb after all - and very little of what eat would be classified as good for you. So, as I've noticed that the weight is slowly creeping on, I'm left pondering what course of action I should take. More exercise is the obvious answer - at least in part. I went to a spinning class (the stationary bike kind of spinning) and enjoyed it, but I'm wondering if I should just try running a couple of mornings a week rather than paying money to go to a class. Although the class mentality works for me - that's why I've stuck with karate for so long (well, honestly that's why I stuck with karate in the beginning, but now I do it because I absolutely love it). I like the accountability of a class - having to be somewhere at a certain time, but the money thing gives me pause. Why do I need to pay $5 a class when I can step out my front door and run for free. Oh, the decisions. So, in typical Stephanie fashion, I haven't done anything. But aside from exercise, I think I need to start eating better. I'd like to think I could just decide to eat better and do it, but I can't. That's not me. A friend mentioned this book to me and it's actually a book I picked up in the bookstore a few months ago and then put back down because there's no way I could go vegan. I live with a man who eats like a 15 year old boy and can't keep weight on (he was pissed the other day because he lost the 3 pounds he'd gained over Christmas and he did nothing other than go to work and the gym - if I didn't love him I would seriously hate his guts). There's no way he's going to go without meat - not in this lifetime anyway. But, I'm intrigued enough about the ideas in the book to want to know more. So, I'm going to do some research and see where it leads me. My friend and I are going on a girl's shopping trip on Saturday, so I imagine it will be a good time to discuss the pros and cons. If you have anything you'd like to add to the debate, please feel free - the more the merrier. And if this goes anywhere, you can bet your ass I'm not telling my dad (the cattle rancher)! He would seriously disown me.
I signed up for NaSpiMoMo (there's a Ravelry group) for no other reason than I have a wonderful wheel that I have been sorely neglecting. And like I said, I do better with a class (and isn't a group sort of like an online class?). My goal is to spin the camel alpaca that I have had in the basket and on the wheel for months. Months!

We'll see how that goes, but at least it's some motivation for me to sit down and spin.
I've started a new sewing project. The last attempt at pants was a bust, but I'm still hopeful that these will work out better.

I have some inexpensive cotton that I'm going to use for a muslin and I'll keep you updated on the progress. In sewing news, my major Christmas gift was money for a new sewing machine. And I'm so excited. There aren't any sewing machine stores in Laramie, but there's one in Cheyenne and a couple in Colorado. I need to go look at machines, but I'm kind of intimidated. There are so many machines and so many options that I just don't even know where to start. I did read a really good article on how to buy a new machine, so I'm going to take that to heart and see what I can come up with. I'd like to stop and look on Saturday, but I may need to just go by myself one day and try a bunch of machines (right now I'm leaning towards a Pfaff, but I have no idea which model might be the best for me that I can actually afford).
Comments
After being a vegetarian for 11 years, I just recently introduced meat to my diet -- turns out I was anemic. And this was after eating a very well balanced vegetarian diet. It all depends on your body type I guess.
I read about the book in the NY times yesterday. You might enjoy reading articl -- I'll email it to you. Good luck!
Posted by: Carishma at January 3, 2008 5:09 PM
I live on a ranch but I really don't eat much meat although I love it. Moderation is the key! I try to do stretching exersize and started going to bosu ball and stabalization class. I also go to yoga that is offered thru the recreation district and is free. My sister runs three mornings a week and goes to Pilates the other three days and rides her bike on Sunday if it is warm. She eats fresh fruit and colorful veggies and yogurt, cottage cheese and fruit smoothies. Also eggs, nuts, salmon, beef or lamb but almost no carbs. She says she sleeps good if she exersizes as it relieves stress. Neither of us diet. Thanks for your blog, it is great.
Posted by: Liz at January 3, 2008 5:37 PM
This isn't something one should broadcast, cause it makes one hate the person talking, but in the last 3 months, I went from a size 12 to a size 4. I lost 4 inches around my hips and I literally made very little effort about the whole thing, so it was actually a bit of a shock. I did pilates 2-3 times a week and made a conscious effort to eat smaller portions and stop when I'm full. I had read the French Women Don't Get Fat book and it inspired me. I also read the "Real Foods" book, which encouraged me to eat less industrial food and more food in its natural state and it would appeal to your meat-eating husband. But I think stopping when you are full and not eating when you aren't hungry is key. So there you go.
Posted by: Sundara at January 3, 2008 5:45 PM
When I tried being vegetarian for two months, I was hungry all the time and gained weight and was cranky to boot. When I tried low-fat diets I gained weight. If I try to skip meals -- I gain weight!
Finally I noticed that veggie and vegan diets and low-fat diets tend to be high-carb. If you cut out meat or fat, it's the sugar and starches that tend to be increased. I tried a low-carb diet (not quite Atkins but not too different) and that worked for me.
I also noticed that deprivation led to binges, as did eating sugar without protein. So for a few years after losing 30 lbs on the low-carb diet I kept away from sugar even as I reintroduced starch.
Now I am eating sugar again and eating 4 meals a day (or 3 plus two snacks) always making sure I get enough meat particularly when sweet treats are around.
I guess the gist of my story is to be sure you know what makes you feel satisfied and keeps you sane enough not to binge. It was such a waste of time for me to try certain diets that worked for other people but I should have known they'd never work for me. They may work for you so best of luck!
Posted by: Lisa Dusseault at January 3, 2008 5:49 PM
I was vegetarian once for several months and the inconsideration person I was dating at the time finally forced me to eat meat again. Why is a totally different story and too long to get into here. I still think about going vegetarian again, but there's no way my Hubby would do it. Instead I eat mostly vegetarian during the day and Hubby and I split a meat at dinner. He'll cook a steak and cut me off a small piece and I'll take extra veggies to make up the difference in filling my stomach. We're also eating a LOT less processed foods and are making more things from scratch. It's nice to know that we're getting fewer chemicals with our food.
Have fun picking a machine. I got a Pfaff a few years ago and love it!
Posted by: Michelle at January 3, 2008 6:12 PM
I can't even picture you putting on weight. In fact, I don't believe you. ;-)
Posted by: Carole at January 3, 2008 6:44 PM
wow, i'm inspired by sundara. i really wish i could lose the baby fat right now but quitting breast feeding is going to be my key, i think. anyway, my advice is to cut out processed foods. eat more vegetables and homemade stuff. stop eating when you're full and only indulge in the yummy baked goods every now and again. this is how i generally eat when i'm not pregnant or breast feeding :) going to the gym helps too. running, meh! sorry can't help you there. i think running is boring and hard on your joints. classes are worth the money!
Posted by: gleek at January 3, 2008 7:40 PM
I really think that all of the major diets work. It is just a matter of finding the one that works for you so that you can comfortably keep with it. I have had great results with South Beach. It is the diet for people who love to eat. My cardiologist recommended it. Boredom does set in eventually, though. Right now I am just counting calories at www.thedailyplate.com (free). This works for me as far as losing wt but it also leaves me the freedom to eat a lot less healthy than SB. Hope this helps.
Posted by: Lisa C. at January 4, 2008 7:45 AM
I gained a lot of weight once and found that I had to totally re-educate myself with my eating habits, I am a natural scoffer!! But just a little change at a time and I am sure you will be fine. Have a lovely 2008!
Posted by: Lin at January 4, 2008 8:43 AM
Don't fool yourself, running is not free. My husband gives me crap all the time for how much money my running costs us. Running shoes are easily $100, which need replacing around every 300 miles, then there's the clothes, the hats, and then the added gadgets like mp3 players, gps, and other hi-tech gear. It all adds up. So, in the long run (no pun intended) a $5 class sounds like a steal to me. :) Just do what you love.
Posted by: Lori at January 4, 2008 9:43 AM
I can completely relate. I've always been naturally underweight and, because I've never had to work at it, I have poor eating and exercise habits. Slowly over the past year and a half my metabolism has slowed down and now I am approaching the point where I have to so something.
Posted by: Knittripps at January 4, 2008 11:35 AM
Good luck with your excercise dilema, you'll find what works for you! Just thought I'd toss in my "two cents" on sewing machines! I've tried a few different brands, and have settled very happily with a Bernina. It's very well made, and the quality is very obvious. If possible, try to get your machine from a dealer(whatever brand you decide on), so you will have support in the future with any problems that may occur with your machine. I took a 2 part guide class(which was free) from the shop where I got my machine to learn how to use it. It was nice to have some support after the purchase instead of just being sent on my way with a new machine and no clue how to work it! Good luck!
Posted by: Cheryl at January 4, 2008 7:53 PM
Well, you could start by not baking CINNAMON BUNS! Sheesh. It's so much easier to be good in the summer, with fresh stuff from the garden and farmer's markets, but here's a new idea: the Reverse Diet. Eat dinner for breakfast and breakfast for dinner! I'll let you know how it works out, although the idea of broccoli before noon is revolting to me. (Oh, yeah, and welcome back, although we've already discussed that one!)
Posted by: Marcia at January 5, 2008 12:05 PM
Let's chat some more about this.. spinning is great because you've got that people and financial obligation. Most times I find that if I have to just go it alone by myself, I don't go. If you want to just run for free.. I'd sign up for a running race so that you actually have a reason to run!
Posted by: yaiAnn at January 5, 2008 8:34 PM
Hi! I'm glad to see you are back online!
I'm with you on the classes idea. Also they are indoors--I am imagining Wyoming as windy and cold in the winter which would be a problem unless (unlike me) you don't allow bad weather as an excuse! (Also--my husband is the same way. But what can you do?)
You may be paying per class, but if that's what you need to exercise it's money well spent. Everyone gets motivated in different ways.
Posted by: Sara at January 7, 2008 8:52 AM
