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August 18, 2005

What Motivates You?

I've been giving this question some serious thought over the last few days. Partly because I have to write a paper about karate for my black belt test next week, partly because I've realized that I really need to start running and I'm wondering how I'm going to ever stick with it, and partly because I've realized how many projects I have that I really want to knit.

I have to say, the motivation for knitting is the easiest for me to pin point. I knit because it relaxes me and I'm really all about relaxation. I knit because I love clothes and I like to make things to wear. I knit because I like the timelessness of the skill, and that my grandmother and her grandmother knit - it's a living history kind of thing. I knit because I'm ultimately a home body and knitting fits right in with that lifestyle.

Karate is a little harder to nail down, but in its simplest form I started with karate as a means of learning self-defense. I'm a big believer that all women ought to be able to take care of themselves. That means a woman ought to be able to light her water heater, change her tire, and defend herself if the need ever arose. I grew up in an environment where it was fully expected that I ought to be able to do anything a boy could do - maybe not in the same way, but I should be able to figure out a way to get it done. No excuses. So, I think that ingrained belief led me to karate. However, karate turned into a lot more than self-defense, and I imagine that's why I've stuck with it. I have to tell ya that karate is the first form of exercise that I've really enjoyed. There is the physical aspect of it, but also so much mental energy that you have to put into it. So, I guess the sense of empowerment I get and the knowledge that I can defend myself (and the fact that it's gotten me into shape) motivate me for karate.

Now running is a whole different ball of wax. I don't dislike running, but for some reason I just can't stick with it. I can tell you that the idea of getting in shape (in a different way than I get from karate) and reducing my body fat are very appealing ideas, but why can't I translate that into action? For those of you ought there who are dedicated runners or exercisers in general, what motivates you to keep at it day after day? I'd also love to hear about why you knit and why you've stuck with it. Motivation fascinates me and I'd love to hear your thoughts.

In knitting news, I started the third ball of yarn on the Ruffle Shrug

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Riveting isn't it. I was particularly interested to see how much more length I got out of the second ball, compared to the first. I did a small swatch out of the first ball, but the ruffle really used a lot of yarn. I decided, based on all of your wonderful comments, that I'm going to graft the two pieces at the back. So, I will knit until I think I have about the right length and then start on the second sleeve. I hope to have this project done over the weekend so I can start the Backyard Leaves scarf next week.

Have a great day, and thanks for sharing.

Posted by Stephanie on August 18, 2005 9:31 AM

Comments

Great question! It seems like one of my main motivations for doing almost anything is simply to prove to myself that I can do it. In fact, the best way to get me to accomplish anything is to insist that I can't do it. Weird, huh? I think I may have some issues to deal with. :)

My recent interest in running is motivated by something different though... lack of clothes that fit properly. (likely due to the fact that I spend 8+ hours a day sitting on my rear in an office, and 4+ more hours a day sitting on my rear in class or studying) So it is more of an economic motivation - either I can spend lots of money buying a new wardrobe (not an altogether bad thing - I love me some new clothes!), or I can get into shape and fit into what I have, and treat myself to a few new things in a smaller size. I find the second option much more appealing!

Posted by: Cyndi at August 18, 2005 11:22 AM

Wow.. I didn't realize you did karate! That is amazing... I totally understand the running thing. I was a competitive swimmer through college and found that once swimming was done, I wanted to run. Want and can are totally different stories... I've slowly built up to be able to run a few miles, but if I skip out for a week or two, I backtrack.

Good luck with your black belt test... how exciting!

Posted by: Dani at August 18, 2005 11:56 AM

i love running and i too have motivation problem with this activity. when i was running more regularly (3-4times/week), i would want to run more. now that i run more like few times a month, i don't look forward to it as much. strange. good luck with karate testing, my husband is also a black-belt and he's been doing it for 15 yrs.

Posted by: blossom at August 18, 2005 12:55 PM

Great questions.

I knit as a creative outlet. I've always enjoyed doing things with my hands, so knitting works for me. Beyond that, I find it fascinating to understand how knitwear is constructed. The knitblog community is amazing too; I doubt I'd be so into knitting without it.

As for running, I do it partly to stay in shape and partly to meet a goal. Marathon training gives me focus. Its a challenging, but achievable goal with measurable results along the way. Running partners and a training schedule are invaluable. I was a casual and reluctant runner before signing up for races and following training schedules.

Posted by: Diana at August 18, 2005 1:16 PM

Nice thought-provoking questions! My primary knitting motivation stems from an innate need to *create* - I don't get to do that in a tangible sense at my job and have always had some form crafty output to help with that. Knitting is the latest incarnation of that crafy output,and I think will be the longest lasting and has been the most satisfying.

I too come from an upbringing that made it clear I can/should be able to do anything a male can do. I can sweat copper pipe joints, my dad taught me alongside my brothers, I mowed the lawn as much as they did etc. Its a good way to be brought up I think.

Can't help with the excersise question - its something I've never been able to stay motivated for myself. Good luck on the black belt test, be sure to let us know how it goes.

Posted by: PumpkinMama at August 18, 2005 1:18 PM

Interesting subject, what motivates me, hmmm, you know I don't know off the top of my head. I guess overall it's love that motivates me to do things, maybe that's why I have a hard time excercising, love of food and hate of excercise.

I'm going to have to think about this for a while I see.

Posted by: Rebekah at August 18, 2005 3:22 PM

I find the actual act of knitting relaxing, but the planning, the modifying, the designing incredibly challenging! It keeps me going, simple patterns where I don't have to use the calculator bore me :). I find it thrilling and challenging to make something that's "perfect" - something that looks great and fits well, but I'm definitely a process knitter and have no attachment to the finished objects.

Shrug is looking nice, and I think your plan to graft in the back is a winner. You'll do a nice job on that one, I'm sure.

Posted by: grumperina at August 18, 2005 4:31 PM

Why, you've been a busy bee as well since the last time I was able to visit... I really really love your sherbet socks, there is something about the knit ankle sock that gets me all giddy these days! The Ruffle shrug also looks lovely, can't wait to see it on! And as far as knitting motivation goes, I think you hit the nail on the head, it's just so relaxing and enjoyable for me, like a little escape at the end of the day before bed, and the fact that you have these functional pieces at the end is what keeps me coming back time and time again, that whole what can I try next thing, it's always changing and there's always new techniques to pick up...excersize is a little more monotonous, that's why it's hard for me to stick with it anyways, I require a little variety after a while, I could never just run dat in and day out for ever. Yoga is better for me, they change up the routine and the order every class, holds my attention better:)

Posted by: Sarah at August 18, 2005 5:20 PM

Ruffle Shrug looks good! It's very feminine.
I knit because it's relaxing, and because I get a lot pleasure out of creating something with my hands. Knitting is also my form of artistic expression. I'm not really an artistic person, and knitting is as close as I get to creating art.

Posted by: caitlyn at August 18, 2005 10:31 PM

Enjoying the process of what you need to do is key to getting it done...at least on a regular basis. The one thing that has kept me going to the gym is the way my body feels when it is thin and in shape. I never want to have the roll of fat around the middle or pant as I walk up the stairs. Keeping the positive way I feel about my body now keeps me motivated.
In knitting it is the simple process of wrapping the yarn (a beautiful yarn) around the needles and watching the process turn into a useful and beautiful object.
Thanks for a very thought provoking post!

Posted by: margene at August 19, 2005 9:36 AM

I'm impressed! Karate blackbelt, wow. I have the same problem as you when it comes to running. The desire to be in shape and lose weight (both of which running achieves fabulously) somehow just don't motivate me enough to run. The one summer I did run continuously I had no friends living by me and I worked all day and ran at night. I think I would be much more motivated to do classes with friends around but those are just beyond my budget right now. Knitting, like you, feeds my homebody side. I love being home, but I can't stand not being productive. Plus I love clothes, so this just fits.

Posted by: Sarah at August 19, 2005 9:43 AM

Motivation for knitting: because it's something creative, crafty and totally unlike any of my other hobbies.

Motivation for running/cycling/skiing, exercise in general: because I'm competitive and I can't stand to be fat.

Posted by: Lynette at August 19, 2005 4:52 PM